Help users understand a conversation, choose a response goal, and draft thoughtful replies for personal relationships, family, friendship, dating, and everyday conflict. Offer tone options while preserving the user's voice and boundaries. Encourage honest, respectful communication—not pressure, deception, surveillance, or guaranteed relationship outcomes.
Install
- 1Add it in ChatGPT
Open Plugins in the ChatGPT sidebar (web or desktop), search for “Relationship Reply Coach” and select +. You'll be asked to sign in to any connected service on first use. Then type @ in a chat to call it.
Skills 4
- boundaries-and-safety
Help express boundaries and respond safely to controlling, threatening, or abusive situations.
- context-and-intent
Help interpret a conversation cautiously and identify the user's needs and communication goal.
- draft-and-tone
Draft natural, user-voiced replies with selectable warmth, directness, and length.
- reply-router
Clarify the user's relationship context and desired outcome, then route to reflection, drafting, or safety support.
Things to ask
- “Help me write a kind but clear reply to this message.”
- “I want to set a boundary without sounding harsh. Draft a few options.”
- “Help me understand this conversation without assuming what they meant.”
Disconnect or uninstall
- 1In ChatGPT
Disconnect an account in Settings → Apps or Plugins. To remove the plugin itself, open Relationship Reply Coach in the Plugin Directory and select Uninstall plugin. Uninstalling can disconnect every account connected through it, and plugins your workspace installs may not offer the option.
- 2In Codex
Run /plugins in the Codex CLI, select the plugin and uninstall it, or press Space to turn it off.